Phew.
A part of me can’t believe I’ve already completed my first semester of university. The other part can’t believe how much happened in that seemingly short time.
Let me know! Which one were you at the end of the first semester? 🙂
For me, it was a semester of falling, learning from mistakes and getting back up again. Here are some of the most important things I learned from my first semester!
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You can’t just be doing work, work, and more work
I started the year with one sole focus: to get some fabulous marks. I put in a lot of work and did earn some fabulous marks, but I didn’t feel happy. Soon enough, I began to lose motivation and that meant more procrastination! It took a horrible week of some not-so-fabulous marks to finally make me realize what I was doing wrong.
I decided to find something else on campus to be a part of and it made a world of a difference. I started going to weekly café-rencontres (French cafe, lots of fun), events organized by UCS (Undergraduate Commerce Society) and SMA (Student Management Association) and other activities here and there. I felt happy being at school, wasted less time doing irrelevant things and ended up turning my marks back around!
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Working hard does not equal working smart
I’m no genius, nor are my marks extraordinary, but this semester, I realized that working hard is not the same thing as working smart. In high school, I’d spend hours on end doing homework, even staying up really late, because that was the formula to do well.
In university, however, this doesn’t work. Not only does less sleep make lectures torturous, but not studying the right way for hours does not guarantee good grades.
Say, there’s no point in spending 5 hours a day on work that could’ve taken you 2 if you had gone to the lecture. Figure out a pattern based on your personality and the nature of the course.
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Your marks don’t determine your intelligence
The definition of intelligence is the ability to acquire knowledge and apply skills. Who said that has to be in Math? Or Science? Or in the program you’re in? If you know you’re working hard and smart, but your grades aren’t reflecting that, don’t let it pull you down. The course or program may not work well with how your brain works. Heck, it may be because the jump to first year diminishes the stamina and energy bars in this video game we play. Just remember, folks, you are more than your marks.
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It’s okay to ask for help
Sometimes, it’s hard to get through hard times alone. Talk to a friend, find a support group, take time to unplug.
You can even go to the HCC (Health and Counselling Centre, here at UTM!) for free personal counselling sessions to free up some space in your brain. The centre is on the first floor of Davis, right around the corner from the bookstore. You get 4 sessions for free!
First semester flew by, but it was heavy. Hey, at least I gained some muscle getting to the finish line.
Step out of your comfort zone and outmaneuver yourself. Good luck with semester two!
– Azalfa